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How to contact your spirit guides
Grounding yourself and your surroundings
I am going to first cover grounding and centering, then psychic protection. On the outline this was farther down but I do realize that in order to contact, we must first protect ourselves
Let me first explain what grounding is. Grounding provides a vehicle through which your body can focus and release its excess electrical energy. It works best with your feet touching the ground outside, but you can do this exercise inside any structure as well.
There are a variety of ways to ground. Electricity always seeks grounding to complete its circuit; it seeks the shortest route possible to the source with the least amount of resistance. We protect our homes and ourselves from being electrocuted by lightning, by having a grounding stake attached to our electrical box. It channels the extraneous electricity such as lightning, into the earth rather than into your outlets where it would seek you as the source to ground through.
We will be visualizing ourselves with a grounding cord which will serve to be our stake into the earth so that the foreign energy goes down the cords instead of bouncing around inside our bodies. Since gravity works with our grounding cords, it forms a vacuum effect, by grounding the building we are essentially giving it its own vacuum hose and this lessens the possibility of our own getting clogged or congested.
Ok lets start by grounding our room first. You may want to read this into a tape recorder so you don't have to keep looking back here.
Grounding the Room
You want to sit in a comfortable position with your feet touching the floor. Turn your palms up and rest them on your thighs. You will now ground the room by imagining a huge beam running from the center of the ceiling deep into the core of the planet. Imagine this beam with various metals in it, such as copper, iron, silver and gold. The beam should be about half the width of the entire room but round like a column. You can also now visualize beams running from each corner of the room from ceiling down into the earth. You can add beams outside of the house or wherever you are. Imagine now that an intense white light is pouring into these columns and washing away any negative energies, sucking them into the tubes and down into the earth where they burn away and return to the earth to be cleansed.
Grounding Yourself
For those that may be familiar with Chakras, you are going to create your grounding cord from your base chakra. This is also where your tailbone is. I want you to now imagine this cord as anything you wish it to be. Debra Katz suggests that you use a redwood tree trunk, a cruise ship anchor, a heavy column of pure gold, a crystal, etc. It is best to imagine this object as wide as your hips. Some people ground with cords like vines but it doesn’t really seem very sturdy to me!
Those people that picture a thin cord probably are really in need of grounding and therefore it appears thin. Don’t worry, as you keep performing this it will grow stronger.
Now imagine your object to be hollow with a slippery center inside. (keep your minds out of that gutter LOL) You are going to give your grounding cord two jobs. The first thing to tell your cord is that it is going to absorb anything that comes your way that you would not want to stick to you, and then tell it that it is going to operate as the vehicle by which you will release any pain, emotions and thoughts that no longer serve you. Start to imagine now that gravity is pulling all of these unwanted things down this cord and into the molten core of the earth. You can also imagine that the earth is a mouth and your cord is the straw, it is drawing out all of these things from your body. (excerpts from Debra Lynne Katz)
Now once you are grounded, imagine you pull your core object up and back into your center. Breathe out and you are now grounded
Shielding or psychic protection
This can be done a number of ways. The way that works best for me, may not feel right to you. I will give you both here today.
Imagine first that you have a very stretchy suit. Like the ones that surfers wear
This suit however is full of reflective mirrors. The suit even has a face mask (yes you can still breathe!) and this is covered in tiny mirrors as well, so are the soles of your feet and palms of your hands. From now on, you will wear this suit when you are working with spirit. Heck I even wear it at the store! These mirrors will reflect any energies that do not belong in your aura. You can sense them, feel them and communicate with them, but you do not absorb them at all.
The 2nd way to shield is imagine a pure white light surrounding you like a bubble. With the same concept as the mirror suit. This is a very strong bubble of white light of pure love and pure peace. Nothing can get into it. So chose which ever works best for you.
Now on to the good stuff!!
Contacting your spirit guides
Today we are going to learn how to contact our spirit guides. I have done about 10 years of study on this subject and there are so many ways to do this it’s unreal. When I was a small child, an older sister of my best friend took me through a guided meditation. At that time, I didn’t know what that meant. It was a slumber party and she made us lay down and close our eyes. She took us down some stairs to an old wooden door. At this door we were to knock three times. When it opened, we would be in front of our main spirit guide. The one who we would have till the day of our death. I think I was 7 years old. It was the most enlightening experience I have ever had.
Let me first explain that we have many different guides that help us in our lives. Here are a few of the categories that I have studied. Some people even say that they have an alien being as a guide.
This is not uncommon, so be open to this experience and let the images come, without judgement.
Gate guides or personal guides.
Some believe that this guide is with us more than most others. They know all our secrets, our inner workings and help us deal with our everyday matters. Because they are so close to us, they serve as a link to all of the other beings and energies in the spiritual realm. They “keep the gates” between the two worlds by helping us to balance the activities of our higher selves with those of our earthly selves.
Joy guides
These guides help us to keep the “joy” in our lives, to remember to play, to laugh and to keep our inner child alive. We feel the presence of this guide most strongly in the moments when our spirits are unfettered and our souls are alight. They may also nudge us in times of great sorrow, to get us to smile. This has happened at somber funerals, you may see someone just start laughing and no one understands why. They feel maybe this person is crazy or delirious through their grief. I believe it is their joy guide, telling them death is just another voyage and may be helping them to remember a silly joke or fun event with the deceased.
Doctor and Teacher guides
These beings are our spiritual physicians and teachers. They are often of a higher vibration and highly evolved. They work with us to develop our talents and to maintain our emotional, mental and physical health. They assist us in balancing our hormonal and chemical makeup; they guide us to wisdom or inspire us to create or help us make the right choices to heal ourselves. Unlike our protectors and joy guides, whose presence is lifelong, doctors and teachers may come and go throughout our lives, depending on the lessons and achievements at hand.
Ascended and Universal Masters
These beings often have famous names, many of us recognize them as figures from history. Usually they, themselves were great spiritual teachers when they existed on the physical plane and they continue to guide and influence masses of people from their positions now in the spiritual realm. Jesus, Buddha, Mohammed, St. Germain, Kuan Yin, Mother Mary - all of these are ascended masters. All of them are available to us if we choose to work with them. The idea of working with these masters I'm sure makes you a little nervous. You may think "Why would Buddha talk to me!? He's way too busy!" Let me assure you, we are all loved beyond measure no matter what. The ascended masters are compassionate and understanding, and nothing pleases them more than to have us call on them for assistance.
Universal Masters
Master guides are usually pretty easy to recognize, because their energy is much different from the other guides' energies that are around us. They bring to us a sense of calm contentment, and sometimes it is hard to disengage from their energies simply because they are so beautiful and peaceful to experience.
Master guides concern themselves with teaching and guiding us on our path to enlightenment. Most of the time our master guide corresponds to the path that feels most comfortable to us on our spiritual journey. For instance, a person who follows Christianity and feels comfortable in that religion might have the disciple Peter or another saint like Theresa Avila, as their Master guide. Master guide energies can be confusing to some people. When I tell people that Merlin is my master guide they usually respond with doubt. I believe that "Merlin" was actually an office held by wise spiritual leaders, most likely a Druid. There were many "Merlin's" that came and went during those times. My Merlin was one of those great leaders.
These guides understand that our lives on earth are filled with mundane events and they support us in everything we do. They send love and help whenever we need it most. However these guides do not give messages to us about our day to day lives. If you need advice on which job to choose or need more energy for the day ahead, you call your doctor teacher and/or joy guide to your aid. Master guides usually come to you in meditations and give messages when they have a vital piece of wisdom to impart. They never waste their words on trivial things.
It is now time for each of you to find your main guide. Your Gatekeeper if you will. If you find in your meditations that you contact one of the other above mentioned guides, that is okay too. Keep doing these meditations and ask either out loud or in your mind to contact your gatekeeper. The one who will work with you connecting with spirits who have passed over.
Each of your guides should have a position. My main guide stands directly in front of me about, his feet appear in my mind about 3 feet from our earth. He faces me and tends to be quite serious
My joy guide, Smiling Fawn, I have asked her to stand at my left. My teacher guide Sir Henry, stands on my right side. My large Norse Viking, also a protector guide for me, stands behind me at my back and keeps me safe. My doctor guide is a monk/druid, Arwen and he stands diagonally to me on my right. I have 2 masters. One is Isis and the other is Merlin. I have another that I’m not sure where he fits in, Rashesh, all of these are way above me, as where you would picture your crown chakra, above my head.
Choose a position once you have met your guide and tell them you would like them to stand there when they come to you. It helps with identifying their vibrations until you start to clearly see them in your mind.
Some of this is from books I have read in my years and some from what I found to be comforting for me. Again, you may want to put each of these on a tape recorder or even your computer, so that you can relax and just listen to them.
Guide Meditation
Begin by getting comfortable and closing your eyes. Start your meditation by relaxing, grounding and protecting as you do in all meditations. Surround yourself with the white light energy of Universal Love, knowing that this protects you in all you do in the ethereal planes. Nothing but love can come to you and nothing but love can go from you.
Now imagine in your mind's eye a beautiful grand staircase that rises up in front of you. There are 10 steps on this staircase and you are eager to journey upward to see what awaits you at the top. So go ahead and step up - one - and continue up - two - moving up - three- continuing up the next step - four - climbing higher and higher - five - continuing up and up - six - moving up the stairs - seven - climbing higher and beginning to see the top - eight- continuing on up - nine - and as you take the last step - ten- you stand there and look around, relaxed and at peace.
Now see that this staircase has led you directly to your very special and sacred place; your garden, your cottage in the woods or your cave, your beach. Wherever your special place is, this staircase has brought you to it once again and you are delighted to be here. Take a few steps forward into the space, admiring all of your favorite things. As you explore, realize that there is something different today about your special place. Across from you, there stands a door, or a gate that is closed and locked. You realize as you look at this new door that you hold a silver key in your hand. This key unlocks this new door in your special place. Know that this door is the gateway to the Other Side and that your key can unlock the door at anytime. You have control over when the door is opened and over who or what comes through this door. Nothing can come through that you don't wish to see or experience. Know that you have the power to control everything that you encounter in the spirit world.
Now move toward this special door, realizing as you walk toward it that your (protector guide, joy guide, doctor chemist guide) is waiting on the other side of the door, hoping for admittance. If you are ready to meet your guide, go ahead and use your key to unlock this door. Open it and allow your guide to enter your space. Greet your guide in whatever way feels appropriate to you. Take a few moments to notice what sensations you are experiencing in your guides presence. Do you feel hot or cold? Do you feel tingly or energized? Do you see anything like a particular color? Can you see your guides face or clothing? What is he/she wearing? What color is his/her hair or eyes? Can you hear anything that he/she is saying? Ask your guide for their name. Take a few minutes now and commune with your guide and enjoy their presence with you in your life.
(pause here on your tape for approximately 5 minutes - 10 minutes)
And now it is time for you to come back to this time and place and for your guide to return to the world of Spirit. Escort your guide to the door, unlock it with your key, and allow your guide to pass back through the door and into the spirit realm. As you say goodbye, know that your guide will see you again and that you can call on him/her to meet with you in your special place anytime your heart desires. Your guide will always heed your call.
Now count yourself backward from ten to one, when you reach one, you will be wide awake, at peace and relaxed.
I am going to first cover grounding and centering, then psychic protection. On the outline this was farther down but I do realize that in order to contact, we must first protect ourselves
Let me first explain what grounding is. Grounding provides a vehicle through which your body can focus and release its excess electrical energy. It works best with your feet touching the ground outside, but you can do this exercise inside any structure as well.
There are a variety of ways to ground. Electricity always seeks grounding to complete its circuit; it seeks the shortest route possible to the source with the least amount of resistance. We protect our homes and ourselves from being electrocuted by lightning, by having a grounding stake attached to our electrical box. It channels the extraneous electricity such as lightning, into the earth rather than into your outlets where it would seek you as the source to ground through.
We will be visualizing ourselves with a grounding cord which will serve to be our stake into the earth so that the foreign energy goes down the cords instead of bouncing around inside our bodies. Since gravity works with our grounding cords, it forms a vacuum effect, by grounding the building we are essentially giving it its own vacuum hose and this lessens the possibility of our own getting clogged or congested.
Ok lets start by grounding our room first. You may want to read this into a tape recorder so you don't have to keep looking back here.
Grounding the Room
You want to sit in a comfortable position with your feet touching the floor. Turn your palms up and rest them on your thighs. You will now ground the room by imagining a huge beam running from the center of the ceiling deep into the core of the planet. Imagine this beam with various metals in it, such as copper, iron, silver and gold. The beam should be about half the width of the entire room but round like a column. You can also now visualize beams running from each corner of the room from ceiling down into the earth. You can add beams outside of the house or wherever you are. Imagine now that an intense white light is pouring into these columns and washing away any negative energies, sucking them into the tubes and down into the earth where they burn away and return to the earth to be cleansed.
Grounding Yourself
For those that may be familiar with Chakras, you are going to create your grounding cord from your base chakra. This is also where your tailbone is. I want you to now imagine this cord as anything you wish it to be. Debra Katz suggests that you use a redwood tree trunk, a cruise ship anchor, a heavy column of pure gold, a crystal, etc. It is best to imagine this object as wide as your hips. Some people ground with cords like vines but it doesn’t really seem very sturdy to me!
Now imagine your object to be hollow with a slippery center inside. (keep your minds out of that gutter LOL) You are going to give your grounding cord two jobs. The first thing to tell your cord is that it is going to absorb anything that comes your way that you would not want to stick to you, and then tell it that it is going to operate as the vehicle by which you will release any pain, emotions and thoughts that no longer serve you. Start to imagine now that gravity is pulling all of these unwanted things down this cord and into the molten core of the earth. You can also imagine that the earth is a mouth and your cord is the straw, it is drawing out all of these things from your body. (excerpts from Debra Lynne Katz)
Now once you are grounded, imagine you pull your core object up and back into your center. Breathe out and you are now grounded
Shielding or psychic protection
This can be done a number of ways. The way that works best for me, may not feel right to you. I will give you both here today.
Imagine first that you have a very stretchy suit. Like the ones that surfers wear
The 2nd way to shield is imagine a pure white light surrounding you like a bubble. With the same concept as the mirror suit. This is a very strong bubble of white light of pure love and pure peace. Nothing can get into it. So chose which ever works best for you.
Now on to the good stuff!!
Contacting your spirit guides
Today we are going to learn how to contact our spirit guides. I have done about 10 years of study on this subject and there are so many ways to do this it’s unreal. When I was a small child, an older sister of my best friend took me through a guided meditation. At that time, I didn’t know what that meant. It was a slumber party and she made us lay down and close our eyes. She took us down some stairs to an old wooden door. At this door we were to knock three times. When it opened, we would be in front of our main spirit guide. The one who we would have till the day of our death. I think I was 7 years old. It was the most enlightening experience I have ever had.
Let me first explain that we have many different guides that help us in our lives. Here are a few of the categories that I have studied. Some people even say that they have an alien being as a guide.
Gate guides or personal guides.
Some believe that this guide is with us more than most others. They know all our secrets, our inner workings and help us deal with our everyday matters. Because they are so close to us, they serve as a link to all of the other beings and energies in the spiritual realm. They “keep the gates” between the two worlds by helping us to balance the activities of our higher selves with those of our earthly selves.
Joy guides
These guides help us to keep the “joy” in our lives, to remember to play, to laugh and to keep our inner child alive. We feel the presence of this guide most strongly in the moments when our spirits are unfettered and our souls are alight. They may also nudge us in times of great sorrow, to get us to smile. This has happened at somber funerals, you may see someone just start laughing and no one understands why. They feel maybe this person is crazy or delirious through their grief. I believe it is their joy guide, telling them death is just another voyage and may be helping them to remember a silly joke or fun event with the deceased.
Doctor and Teacher guides
These beings are our spiritual physicians and teachers. They are often of a higher vibration and highly evolved. They work with us to develop our talents and to maintain our emotional, mental and physical health. They assist us in balancing our hormonal and chemical makeup; they guide us to wisdom or inspire us to create or help us make the right choices to heal ourselves. Unlike our protectors and joy guides, whose presence is lifelong, doctors and teachers may come and go throughout our lives, depending on the lessons and achievements at hand.
Ascended and Universal Masters
These beings often have famous names, many of us recognize them as figures from history. Usually they, themselves were great spiritual teachers when they existed on the physical plane and they continue to guide and influence masses of people from their positions now in the spiritual realm. Jesus, Buddha, Mohammed, St. Germain, Kuan Yin, Mother Mary - all of these are ascended masters. All of them are available to us if we choose to work with them. The idea of working with these masters I'm sure makes you a little nervous. You may think "Why would Buddha talk to me!? He's way too busy!" Let me assure you, we are all loved beyond measure no matter what. The ascended masters are compassionate and understanding, and nothing pleases them more than to have us call on them for assistance.
Universal Masters
Master guides are usually pretty easy to recognize, because their energy is much different from the other guides' energies that are around us. They bring to us a sense of calm contentment, and sometimes it is hard to disengage from their energies simply because they are so beautiful and peaceful to experience.
Master guides concern themselves with teaching and guiding us on our path to enlightenment. Most of the time our master guide corresponds to the path that feels most comfortable to us on our spiritual journey. For instance, a person who follows Christianity and feels comfortable in that religion might have the disciple Peter or another saint like Theresa Avila, as their Master guide. Master guide energies can be confusing to some people. When I tell people that Merlin is my master guide they usually respond with doubt. I believe that "Merlin" was actually an office held by wise spiritual leaders, most likely a Druid. There were many "Merlin's" that came and went during those times. My Merlin was one of those great leaders.
These guides understand that our lives on earth are filled with mundane events and they support us in everything we do. They send love and help whenever we need it most. However these guides do not give messages to us about our day to day lives. If you need advice on which job to choose or need more energy for the day ahead, you call your doctor teacher and/or joy guide to your aid. Master guides usually come to you in meditations and give messages when they have a vital piece of wisdom to impart. They never waste their words on trivial things.
It is now time for each of you to find your main guide. Your Gatekeeper if you will. If you find in your meditations that you contact one of the other above mentioned guides, that is okay too. Keep doing these meditations and ask either out loud or in your mind to contact your gatekeeper. The one who will work with you connecting with spirits who have passed over.
Each of your guides should have a position. My main guide stands directly in front of me about, his feet appear in my mind about 3 feet from our earth. He faces me and tends to be quite serious
Choose a position once you have met your guide and tell them you would like them to stand there when they come to you. It helps with identifying their vibrations until you start to clearly see them in your mind.
Some of this is from books I have read in my years and some from what I found to be comforting for me. Again, you may want to put each of these on a tape recorder or even your computer, so that you can relax and just listen to them.
Guide Meditation
Begin by getting comfortable and closing your eyes. Start your meditation by relaxing, grounding and protecting as you do in all meditations. Surround yourself with the white light energy of Universal Love, knowing that this protects you in all you do in the ethereal planes. Nothing but love can come to you and nothing but love can go from you.
Now imagine in your mind's eye a beautiful grand staircase that rises up in front of you. There are 10 steps on this staircase and you are eager to journey upward to see what awaits you at the top. So go ahead and step up - one - and continue up - two - moving up - three- continuing up the next step - four - climbing higher and higher - five - continuing up and up - six - moving up the stairs - seven - climbing higher and beginning to see the top - eight- continuing on up - nine - and as you take the last step - ten- you stand there and look around, relaxed and at peace.
Now see that this staircase has led you directly to your very special and sacred place; your garden, your cottage in the woods or your cave, your beach. Wherever your special place is, this staircase has brought you to it once again and you are delighted to be here. Take a few steps forward into the space, admiring all of your favorite things. As you explore, realize that there is something different today about your special place. Across from you, there stands a door, or a gate that is closed and locked. You realize as you look at this new door that you hold a silver key in your hand. This key unlocks this new door in your special place. Know that this door is the gateway to the Other Side and that your key can unlock the door at anytime. You have control over when the door is opened and over who or what comes through this door. Nothing can come through that you don't wish to see or experience. Know that you have the power to control everything that you encounter in the spirit world.
Now move toward this special door, realizing as you walk toward it that your (protector guide, joy guide, doctor chemist guide) is waiting on the other side of the door, hoping for admittance. If you are ready to meet your guide, go ahead and use your key to unlock this door. Open it and allow your guide to enter your space. Greet your guide in whatever way feels appropriate to you. Take a few moments to notice what sensations you are experiencing in your guides presence. Do you feel hot or cold? Do you feel tingly or energized? Do you see anything like a particular color? Can you see your guides face or clothing? What is he/she wearing? What color is his/her hair or eyes? Can you hear anything that he/she is saying? Ask your guide for their name. Take a few minutes now and commune with your guide and enjoy their presence with you in your life.
(pause here on your tape for approximately 5 minutes - 10 minutes)
And now it is time for you to come back to this time and place and for your guide to return to the world of Spirit. Escort your guide to the door, unlock it with your key, and allow your guide to pass back through the door and into the spirit realm. As you say goodbye, know that your guide will see you again and that you can call on him/her to meet with you in your special place anytime your heart desires. Your guide will always heed your call.
Now count yourself backward from ten to one, when you reach one, you will be wide awake, at peace and relaxed.
Thursday, September 25, 2008
working
I will be starting with CP around the first of Oct. I will be under the name of Tancy because there is already a Laura and they don't want us confused. Come look me up :) You don't have to hire me just check me out! :)
The cool thing is that this is the site that stars use. ! So who knows, I may read for Kid Rock or Sarah Jessica Parker! :P
Hugs
Laura
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Dreams
I had a dream last night I was picking berries with my mom, but this big bear kept jumping on the bushes near us and eating all the berries. My mom's friend Barb drove up to see what we were doing and my mom gave me money to go buy some pancakes for all of us to eat.
Ya.. wtf does that mean!??
Ya.. wtf does that mean!??
New Job
Sorry its been so long since I have posted here. So much has been happening. I now work for the widget you see over there >>>>>
Yep, California psychics! I should be getting my welcome package this week. !
Just a short note to let you know I still live ! :)
Hugs and Light
Laura
Yep, California psychics! I should be getting my welcome package this week. !
Just a short note to let you know I still live ! :)
Hugs and Light
Laura
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Back from Virginia
Well I just flew in Sunday night from Virginia. God..it's HOT there (lol) I really enjoyed it though. Went to the house (townhouse) and looked around. Really nice area, I think the kids will enjoy it a lot.
It looks like I will probably decide to move a little sooner than planned because of a few reasons. If June is this hot in Virginia (95* with 110* heat index) then crap... August will be TORTURE! I am laboriously trying to pack and downsize a house, into a smaller townhouse. Not easy for those who have gone through this chaos. I'm shooting to part this watery state around July 18th. I was going to have a party and invite all my wonderful buds, but Nat is unable to get any weekdays off.. which means he will have to fly in on Friday night, pack all day Saturday and then drive 12 hours to get to Virginia by mid Sunday so he can go to work at 6 a.m. on Monday.... poor Nat :(
In other news....
I have been encouraged by a few of my clients to write a book about my crazy life. I'm actively researching how to go about doing this and maybe in the next year or so, I plan to get it published.
well got to get packing.
Will write again soon!
Laura
It looks like I will probably decide to move a little sooner than planned because of a few reasons. If June is this hot in Virginia (95* with 110* heat index) then crap... August will be TORTURE! I am laboriously trying to pack and downsize a house, into a smaller townhouse. Not easy for those who have gone through this chaos. I'm shooting to part this watery state around July 18th. I was going to have a party and invite all my wonderful buds, but Nat is unable to get any weekdays off.. which means he will have to fly in on Friday night, pack all day Saturday and then drive 12 hours to get to Virginia by mid Sunday so he can go to work at 6 a.m. on Monday.... poor Nat :(
In other news....
I have been encouraged by a few of my clients to write a book about my crazy life. I'm actively researching how to go about doing this and maybe in the next year or so, I plan to get it published.
well got to get packing.
Will write again soon!
Laura
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
The "Blocks"
Rarely in the last 2 years have I met with what I call "blocks". People who really really want to be read but for some reason, just seem to block the flow of energy and I'm unable to reach their guides in order to relay information.
One particular block I'll call Debbie was my first. She came to me with a smile but her body told me she really didn't believe I could see her future. Her shoulders were hunched around her ears and after shuffling the cards, I noted that she crossed her arms in front of her.
To those of you learning the art of mediumship, this is a big sign of "DON'T ENTER".
I did my best to have my guide, a rather large Native American fellow, pull forward her main guide and request a "pow-wow" (hehe) Try as he might, he simply shook his head.
None of the cards fit her (at least she wouldn't say they did) and when I try and validate things, like how many children, whether her grandmother was short, died of heart attack, etc. she simply said "nope".. "nope"...
Okay, I conceded and handed her back her money. She looked at me a little surprised.
"Why are you giving me my money back?" I told her that if I couldn't validate at least 3 events or people in her life that I did not feel that I deserved payment for services (since I had provided none).
It is still my policy today. I do however send a small note to those of you going for a reading. RELAX (haha) we don't bite....well not hard anyway. Make a mental note to take 4 deep breaths, in through the nose (hold for 3) out through your mouth (for count of 3). This will raise your energy and vibrations. It makes it easier for us to talk to your "people". also watch your body language. Don't cross your legs, or your arms. If you feel comfortable doing this, hold your palms up on your lap. It channels more energy into your body. Before you begin, you can tell your reader "I don't want to hear about my relationship.. health... money" and they will steer away from that. (never known anyone to say it but hey, there's always a first!)
I will try really hard to start phone readings - I will lack the energy I typically use to read a person, so it will be a test for me. I don't want to lose touch with all of you and I enjoy your life events.. (some people are virtual soap operas !! hehe j/k)
Thanks for reading! I will post more when I know my actual move date!
Blessings
Laura
One particular block I'll call Debbie was my first. She came to me with a smile but her body told me she really didn't believe I could see her future. Her shoulders were hunched around her ears and after shuffling the cards, I noted that she crossed her arms in front of her.
To those of you learning the art of mediumship, this is a big sign of "DON'T ENTER".
I did my best to have my guide, a rather large Native American fellow, pull forward her main guide and request a "pow-wow" (hehe) Try as he might, he simply shook his head.
None of the cards fit her (at least she wouldn't say they did) and when I try and validate things, like how many children, whether her grandmother was short, died of heart attack, etc. she simply said "nope".. "nope"...
Okay, I conceded and handed her back her money. She looked at me a little surprised.
"Why are you giving me my money back?" I told her that if I couldn't validate at least 3 events or people in her life that I did not feel that I deserved payment for services (since I had provided none).
It is still my policy today. I do however send a small note to those of you going for a reading. RELAX (haha) we don't bite....well not hard anyway. Make a mental note to take 4 deep breaths, in through the nose (hold for 3) out through your mouth (for count of 3). This will raise your energy and vibrations. It makes it easier for us to talk to your "people". also watch your body language. Don't cross your legs, or your arms. If you feel comfortable doing this, hold your palms up on your lap. It channels more energy into your body. Before you begin, you can tell your reader "I don't want to hear about my relationship.. health... money" and they will steer away from that. (never known anyone to say it but hey, there's always a first!)
I will try really hard to start phone readings - I will lack the energy I typically use to read a person, so it will be a test for me. I don't want to lose touch with all of you and I enjoy your life events.. (some people are virtual soap operas !! hehe j/k)
Thanks for reading! I will post more when I know my actual move date!
Blessings
Laura
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